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Friday Introductions: The Young Peacemakers

Posted by on June 22, 2012

I love the sound of little girl giggles. They permeate my house for most of the summer. Including my girls, we have six girls who live in the neighborhood, and we have an open-door policy at our house. My girls’ friends are welcome almost any time. During the summer that means that there are kids in and out of my house almost constantly, which means there are plenty of little girl giggles all summer long.

Unfortunately, there are also plenty of little girl fights, as well. With six girls, several with strong personalities, disagreements are inevitable. Someone often feels left out or put upon by the others. A lot of times, it’s five against one or four against two. These disagreements can often end with one child in tears or another stomping off to go home, neither of which are healthy responses to conflict.

God doesn’t want us or our kids to live in a state of constant conflict. He wants us to live at peace with others. Romans 12:18 says “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Conflict is inevitable in life. It’s up to us to teach our kids healthy ways to deal with conflict.

This summer, I’m taking the six girls in my neighborhood throught The Young Peacemaker series. This collection of 12 pamphlet-style books walks kids through the steps for resolving conflict. It looks at wrong responses to conflict and points kids in the right direction. It talks about the motives behind conflict and good ways to resolve it. And it does all this in a comic-book style format that is engaging, fun and biblically based.

I’ve read a lot of books on parenting and spent a lot of time looking at resources to use with your kids. This is the best resource I’ve found for teaching kids to deal with conflict. If you’re looking for a curriculum to use with your own kids or with a group of kids, check out The Young Peacemaker.

We’re about halfway through the 12 books, and I’ve already seen results. Instead of stomping off or getting mad, the girls in my neighborhood are learning to work through their conflicts. They’re much more likely to create a compromise or get help solving an issue now than they were six weeks ago. Just the other day, I saw them respectfully work out a disagreement that just weeks before would have resulted in tears and drama.

We still have some of the drama (it’s nearly impossible to avoid with that many girls around), but The Young Peacemaker is teaching these girls powerful tools that make conflict something to be dealt with, not something that will drive a wedge and break up friendships.

4 Responses to Friday Introductions: The Young Peacemakers

  1. Kristen @ Celebrate Every Day With Me

    Just pinned this for the future. Sounds like a great series! What is a good age to start this?

    • Lori

      Kristen,
      The books are really aimed at kids 7 or 8 and older, but you could probably adapt it for younger kids. The situations they present are mostly relevant to school-age kids and the strategies they give are probably a bit much for preschoolers.

  2. Janelle Hoos

    I have just discovered this book even though it is 15 years old. I am currently reviewing it for my website and was glad to come across your blog about it. I am looking at ways to adapt it for use in Sunday School. This material is the best I have seen on teaching kids to deal with conflict in a biblical way. I am very impressed with what I have read to far and am curious as to why I have never come across it before. How do you use it with your neighborhood girls? Are you just using the student books or do you also have the parent/teacher manual?

    • Lori

      Janelle,
      I have the kids read the books before they come each week. We recap what they read, and I’ve created activities to demonstrate the things they learned. I didn’t purchase the leader’s manual as it wasn’t in my budget. I’d be happy to share what I have so far with you. We’ve done through Book 6 so far. Just shoot me an email at ldfairchild(at)comcast(dot)net.

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